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mosque was packed: The fast of Ramadan was over, and inside the
Islamic Society of Central Jersey, hundreds of people stood
shoulder-to-shoulder, waiting to pray beneath the buildings gold
dome.
A towering man in a flowing robe and a white turban strode to the
front. Facing the crowdmen in front, women in backhe surveyed the
room through thick-lensed glasses. The chatter quieted beneath his
gaze, and he turned East, facing Mecca.
Allahu Akbar! (God is great!) He cried, piercing the silence.
His body bent into a reverent bow. Behind him, the crowd followed
as one. He made it look easy. Those who know Imam Hamad Ahmad
Chebli, the spiritual leader of the Islamic society of central
Jersey in South Brunswick, know otherwise. As leader of a diverse
and growing 700-member congregation in a nation that knows little
about Islam, the 50 year-old Chebli built unityand bridgeswhere
neither existed before.
Whether leading prayers at his own mosque or at an interfaith
service in a church, speaking at a public school or applying for a
variance at a Zoning Board meeting, Chebli has emerged as one of
New Jerseys most articulate spokesmen for his faith.
Those who listen learn that Allahu Akbar is more of a Hallelujah!
than a battle cry, that the prophet Muhammad taught patience and
tolerance, and that Islam encourages its adherents to abide by
societys laws.
I remember still to this day when they made the application (to
build the mosque), said Roger Craig, a former South Brunswick
mayor and Planning Board member. I remember the imam speaking and
saying that like all of you in the community, we are oriented
towards making a good future for our children and safe community
for our members.
Yet Chebli is willing to take a stand, too. He espouses harsher
personalities for violent criminals. He questions whether the
convicted World Trade Center bombers were treated differently
because they were Muslim, and others support for Iraqis or
Palestinians.
Bearded and broad-shouldered, Chebli cuts an imposing figure at
6-foot-2 (6-foot-6 with turban). An eminent scholar, he studied
Islamic theology at the prestigious Al-Azhar University in Cairo,
Egypt. He knows the Koran all 6,000 verses by heart.
Yet he quotes talk radio or ABCs Nightline almost as often as he
quotes Muslim scripture, and he easily jokes about his Lebanese
accent. (Thats tourists, not terrorists, he told a reporter with a
guffaw once during a telephone interview about tensions at tourist
sites in Israel.)
A father of six, including four in South Brunswick public schools
he is at home at the wheel of his American-made minivan.
Inside the mosque, he bends easily to the floor to tickle a
toddler. And Peace be with you, sister, and You are welcome,
brother! and uttered with hearty gusto several times each day.
His articulate voice and open-door policy have paid off good will
and choice invitations.
When people attending mosque events parked their cars in
neighboring Princeton Gate, a tony housing development surrounding
the mosques 6-acre lot, Sylvia Lee, homeowners association
president, paid a visit to the Imam. His quick response solved the
problem and earned the neighborhoods support when the mosque
sought to expand its parking lot and keep a movie theater from
breaking ground nearby.
Chebli was invited to speak at an interfaith service preceding
Gov. Christie Whitmans second-term inauguration and to offer
prayers on the floor of the Congress. He welcomes Jews and
Christians to his mosque and to his table, and he has been known
to give bear hugs to Catholic Priests.
I almost got lost in his robes, said the Rev. John Polyak, pastor
of Our Lady of Peace Roman Catholic Church in North Brunswick.
Polyak, a fellow member of the South Brunswick Clergy Association,
encountered the open-armed Chebli at the popes outdoor Mass in
Giants Stadium in October 1995 about the last place he expected to
see his Muslim friend.
Chebli, who serves on two interfaith groups in Middle East peace
and participants in a Muslim/Catholic dialogue sponsored by the
Archdiocese of New York, was part of a delegation of Muslim
leaders invited to the Mass. He had a front-row seat.
This is a person who is really on the leading edge, the ones that
do this kind of work, said Ibrahim Hooper of the Council on
American Islamic Relations in Washington.
The council was formed four years ago to educate the American
public about Islam and battle anti-Muslim discrimination. Muslim
leaders like Chebli who came to the United States in 1982, helped
pave the way for such work.
Hooper, who does not know Chebli personally, said many immigrant
Muslim leaders focus on internal concerns mosque building and
religious education, for example and tend to leave interfaith
outreach for times of crisis. Those who take proactive stance, as
Chebli has, can help avert bias and dispel problems before they
arise, Hooper said.
Thats why I do this, outside the building more than inside the
building, Chebli said recently as he sat in his small office. I
get the feeling they need us, and we need them. Why keep Islam in
jail?
In a single month this summer, Chebli received a 3-inch-high stack
on invitations to speak at every thing from a mosque dedication in
Guyana (he accepted) to a meeting of the New Jersey Catholic
Conference (he declined).
It was a typical month. In between speaking engagements, he gives
a weekly radio show Reading from the Koran at 7:05 p.m. each
Saturday on WING-AM 1300.
Later this month, he will address the 1998 national convention of
the American Muslim Council in Washington, sharing a dais with FBI
Director Louis Freeh and CNN correspondent Chritiane Amanpour.
Riaz Siddiqui of Ewing, a mosque board member and former
president, was among those who helped interview and hire Chebli in
1986. Chebli, at the time of Imam of a small mosque in New
Orleans, impressed the hiring committee with his energetic yet
flexible style.
He doesnt say, Thats not my job. He doesnt know that phrase,
Siddiqui said. Whatever it is, he takes ownership, at times to the
chagrin of the board of trustees or other people. If he sees a
hole, hes willing to fill it.
The griping, although rare, comes when Cheblis busy schedule
prevents him from performing a marriage or funeral, giving marital
counseling, teaching a class, leading prayers or doing any of the
myriad things he was hired to do.
At time people complain, but they complain that they miss him,
Siddiqui said. He cant do everything.
The Arabic term Imam translates roughly to prayer leader, and
Chebli is fond of pointing out that any educated man would be
qualified for the job. Like Judaism, Islam values scholars more
than preachers and has no formal hierarchy.
Men in congregation, including Cheblis oldest son, Ahmad, 18, have
led prayers at the mosque.
Wisdom of Solomon
While Islamic tradition reserves mosque leadership for men, women
are key players in the mosques growing day school. His wife, Mona,
participates in womens groups. His daughter, Maryam, 14, is
principals assistant of the mosques weekend religious school for
children.
A major part of Cheblis job and one of his skills most appreciated
by the mosques members is his ability to soothe tensions inside
the mosques walls. The centers members may pray together and
respect Islams core teachings prayer, fasting, charity, faith and
pilgrimage to Mecca but they speak several languages and interpret
Islamic teachings in different ways.
Mohammed Siddiqui an AT&T systems manager from South
Brunswick, and the mosques treasurer, praises Cheblis ability to
keep the peace.
Its a very tough job to run a society with two different levels of
faith in the religion, Siddiqui said. Imam is a pivot in that he
gets pressure from both sides.
Style of dress is a hot topic, Siddiqui said. The Koran requires
men and women to dress modestly, a demand that has been
interpreted in different ways according to time and place. Some of
the differences are cultural in general, Muslims from India to
Pakistan interpret the dress requirements more loosely than those
from Saudi Arabia or Egypt.
At prayer services marking Ramadans end last year, for example,
some women tightly covered their hair beneath white scarves, while
others draped colorful or sheer scarves loosely around their
heads.
Earlier this year, a poster went up near the mosques front door
pointing the rules of etiquette. The sign discourages jewelry and
make up in the mosque, asks women to wear long sleeves, skirts and
head coverings, and
encourages men to dress modestly as well.
The sign has pleased mosque members on both ends of the religious
spectrum. Privately, moderates say it allows them flexibility,
while more orthodox Muslims are pleased to see minimum standards
set.
Yasser Elmenshawy of Woodbridge, chairman of the Majlis Ash-Shura,
a coalition of Islamic organizations in New Jersey, noted that
dress codes are stricter in mosques in North Jersey. He said
Chebli is popular for raising the standard in a way that did not
alienate more moderate members.
He tells people their responsibilities outside the
mosque but doesnt try to pry into their lives, Elmenshawy said.
The Making of a scholar
Chebli was born Jan. 26, 1948, in Tripoli in northern Lebanon. The
son of a sheep trader who couldnt write Arabic but dreamed that
his three sons would become Muslim scholars, Chebli was sent to
religious boarding school in Beirut as a young boy.
Early in his studies, a teacher named Hassan Khaled chose Chebli
to serve at a neighboring mosque. Nearly four decades later,
Chebli laughs as he recalls the puzzled expression of the mosques
members when a lanky boy in glasses came to lead their prayers.
Later, Chebli traveled to Egypt to study at Al-Azhar, the worlds
oldest university. During those years, Khaled, his mentor, was
chosen Grand Mufti of Lebanon, the nations foremost Islamic legal
scholar in the Sunni Muslim sect. Sunnis, who make up the majority
of the worlds Muslims, are a minority in civil war-torn Lebanon,
numbering about 700,000.
In 1982, when the Muslim World League was searching for prominent
scholars to go to the new world and serve a growing Muslim
population in the United States and Canada, Khaled, one of the
leagues founders, recommended two of his favorite students: Chebli
and Talal Eid.
Like Chebli, Eid, now the Imam of the Islamic Society of New
England, is involved in interfaith work. A graduate of Harvard
Divinity School and a well-known religious leader in the Boston
area, Eid last year became the first Muslim to offer the
invocation at Harvard University graduation ceremonies.
Their mentor, Khaled, set the example. In deeply divided Lebanon,
he moved freely among Shiite or Sunni Muslims and Christians or
various sects. He advocated nonviolent solutions to Lebanons civil
war.
Khaleds work cost him his life. In 1989, he and 21 others were
murdered when a bomb exploded inside Khaleds car. In an
unprecedented display of unity, Muslims and Christians in Lebanon
closed up their businesses, flew flags at half-staff and played
songs of mourning on their competing radio stations. More than
100,000 people marched through Beirut behind his flag-draped
coffin.
His quietness, Chebli said, when asked which of Khaleds qualities
inspired him most. He never shouted at us. He spoke very softly.
He showed us a great example of how to be a leader. He talked to
us kids like a grandfather. He took us under his shelter. He tried
to cover our faults.
Under Chebli's example, members of the Islamic Society of Central
Jersey are also building bridges with the wider community serving
on library boards, sponsoring educational programs, organizing a
weekly health clinic that is free and open to all.
Still, from time to time a vandal will break a window in Cheblis
car or uproot his mailbox or steal a sign from in front of the
mosque. Trying not to lose his temper, Chebli thinks of home, his
teacher and of his next opportunity to teach a lesson about Islam.
He takes bias incidents seriously but in stride.
"We live with that, Chebli said. We came from a country of
people shooting each other with live bullets. We learned to
survive, and we will survive here, God willing."
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